Wednesday, August 18, 2010

My Own Personal Detective!

My son Robert was recently promoted to the rank of detective with the Washington County (Oregon) Sheriff's Department! He called us a few nights ago with the good news. There was quite a detailed selection process for this, including interviews, presentations and other tests. There were multiple applications so we are especially proud of this accomplishment.

He has been assigned to the child abuse unit, which investigates physical abuse cases and sexual assault cases. (Ugh!) His pay will stay the same but he will get a take-home car and a clothing allowance.

He will switch from swing to day shift and enjoy a normal Monday through Friday schedule. He starts the new assignment in September.

I have never had my own personal detective before!

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Car Woes

I forgot to mention that, on our way up to Salt Lake City for Brenda's graduation, the Kia Sorento that has 100,00+ miles on it, developed an awful sound. We stopped in Beaver UT and the mechanic said the case bearings around the drive shaft needed replacing. Thought we could get to SLC OK. So we limped another 200 miles arriving at our long-time friends, the Ethingtons.

Bryan is the controller or something for three area family-owned dealerships. He took Larry (and the Sorento) down first thing Saturday morning and the Mitsubishi service could see it quickest. He also rented us a beautiful huge SUV for $25 a day. Went to the graduation, had a nice day with the fam.

Larry and Morgan rented a second car Sunday night so they'd be able to get home on time for work Monday. I had to stay until the car was fixed and drive home by myself. Don't ever rent a car one-way unless you absolutely have to. It cost us $260+ for 24 hours! Unfortunately for Larry, Morgan was sick all the way and he also had to drive the 700 miles solo--and help care for the kids!

I hung out Sunday with my friends. I hung out Monday with my friends. Monday night I got the call saying they had the car ready. We picked it up at closing that night and they told me it would make it home but it also needed work on the actual drive shaft as it was bent. Advised me not to ignore it for long. Great. I wondered later why they didn't just call me and get authorization to do the drive shaft, also?

I left SLC bright and early Tuesday morning. It ended up being kind of fun driving alone--the first 500 miles! I could play my CDs as loud as I wanted, NO talk radio, the temp was on high refrige...awesome! I stopped where and when I wanted, once getting out in the Gorge area between NV and into AZ to take photos of Joshua Trees. You don't need to say it, I know. I have no idea why--but I LOVE Joshua Trees! I really do. Something about them eeking out an existence in the bare desert....anyway I included one for your enjoyment.

I was on the road almost 12 hours. Boy, way I glad to get home!

Saturday, July 24, 2010

A New "Master" in the Family


My CA pink-slipped school teacher daughter, Brenda, received her Masters degree in Special Education last weekend from Western Governor's University, an online post graduate college.

Larry and I traveled with Morgan and the kids to Utah for the event. Robert also came down from Portland to help celebrate. The graduation ceremony was held on the University of Utah campus, Kingsbury Hall. They had 1200 graduates from around the nation; thankfully, only about 10% attended in person!

After the ceremony, they hosted a wonderful luncheon outdoors on the grounds of the college. It was a very nice event. If you are interested in watching a short video, let me know and I will send it to you.
















Brenda had a very good mentor...






When Brenda was pink-slipped, she decided she'd use the time off to further her education and hopefully cement her ability to get a teaching job in the process. Unfortunately, things didn't quite work out that way. She never was hired on as a teacher again and has now moved to Vermont where she got a job as 5/6 combination teacher with 12 students AND a full-time aide. At least some states know the importance of education and her abilities will be put to good use. Her husband has been in VT the last month where he was able to get hired as am engineer for the local telephone company.

California's loss was Vermont's gain.

I will miss her terribly.

The Ride Along with Washington County's Finest

Of course, during my trip to Portland, I had to do a ride along with one of Washington County' finest, my son, Corporal Robert Rookhuyzen! He switched his usual graveyard shift to one through which I could be conscious, noon to 10 PM. (My last ride along, graveyard shift, I was only partially conscious the final 4 hours!)

Rob's car was outfitted with a dandy computer that kept him going all shift! I have long considered myself to be a good multi-tasker but he put me to shame. He often had the radio, dispatches and his walkie talkie thing going simultaneously--and was communicating on
all three! Yes, this was done often while driving! We responded to several interesting calls:
1. picking up evidence from the scene of a month-long dead body that had been overlooked the night before. We both thought how sad it was that no one had missed this woman for 30+ days! He asked if i wanted to come in with him--duh! The smell was unbelievable. I guess maintenance had been in that morning to see if they needed to replace the carpet! They will need to replace the floor! There was lot of gooey human left behind.

2. We also responded to what they called Sex Abuse incident (the fourth in a month and the second that day) at the world campus of Nike, wherein a man riding a red bike rode up behind women joggers and grabbed their crotches--then riding placidly away! Of course all the women were using their iPods at the time so they had no forewarning of anything. Scary!

As a result of that call and interviews of victims, the Commander put Rob t in charge of a "mission," their term for a 3-day undercover op to catch the perv. He made many calls and wrote reports in prep for the op which would take place the next three days at a variety of hours. (Unfortunately, the perp never showed.)

I also got to watch a "lay down." This is where a photo lay out was presented to witnesses (at their place of employment or wherever) of a drunk driver who left the scene of the crime. In separate "lay downs," both witnesses immediately picked out the driver. Hopefully another drunk driver bites the dust! It was her fourth DUI!
















Being a corporal, Rob gets to choose the calls to which he will respond. He pulled over one driver with expired tags (I don't know how he sees what he sees and runs plates while driving!!) and no insurance. The poor man who was driving his boss's truck, left with a very hefty ticket.

I am old and cannot recall everything we did but it was great fun as always. Robert told me every city/county police force welcomes ride alongs from citizens. He says he often checks the board before going out on patrol to see if there is anyone waiting to go. He likes showing what the police do for better citizen understanding from the public. So...check it out!!

I am so proud of him for what he does, each and every day. I always enjoy these outings!

Travels to Portland

I recently traveled to Portland to visit my son and to attend my twin sister's only son's wedding. It turned into a family reunion as all my sibs came: Butch from Reno; Linda from VA; Judy from WA; and me from CA. GREAT FUN! We are a gaming family and many games such as Boggle, Sequence, Canasta, dice, etc. were played, often into the wee hours into the night.

Weddings bring great food and this was no exception. We attended the rehearsal dinner at Amalfi's, a delicious Italian restaurant. Kim was a outstanding hostess and planned delicious meals. She also had inflatable beds for overflow guests of which I was one. Her best plan by far was the day of the wedding. The five sisters (we adopted our sister-in-law years ago) ate breakfast out with the whole group, then we split off to go to a nail salon for mani's. Kim, Linda and I also had our eyebrows done. It was a first for both Kim and Linda. I heard several loud "Ouch's!" from the back room!

Then home, where Kim's personal hairdresser made a gigantic house call and did all our hair in the kitchen. Here is a photo of me and my sis! Can you tell which is which???

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The wedding was held outdoors at a local college's Rhododendron garden. We had our own lake. The only negative was that Portland was in the grip of a terrible heat/humidity wave and we melted most of the day but our joy was not impinged upon. We just enjoyed it through our sweat!

It was a wonderful wedding and a wonder family reunion.

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Funeral Trip to Utah

Morgan, Brenda and all the kids took the quick trip to Utah with me to attend my dear mother-in-law's funeral last Monday. Robert drove down to attend, also.
















As usual, in my family, funerals are wonderful family reunions...and this one was no different.


My kids connected with cousins not seen for years. All of Larry's seven brothers and sisters were there with all their kids. I think we counted 85 total family members!

The service was very nice. It was a hot day in Ogden and we sweated! Larry booked usinto the local Motel 6 and the kids took advantage of their nice pool.

All in all, it was a sad occasion with periods of great reuniting with family members.

Friday, June 25, 2010

Larry's Beloved Mother Dies


On Wednesday, June 23, 2010, Larry's mom died. She bore and raised eight children: Eileen, Larry, Marilyn, Mark, Paul, Nancy, David and Karen. She is survived by her husband, Sid, who lovingly devoted the last 10 years to caring for her.

Her funeral and memorial service will be held in Ogden, Utah, Monday June 28, 2010, and she will be buried in Ogden. She was 87 years old.

Larry's mom, Elva, was always so kind to me. I came to the family a young divorced mother with a small child, Jennifer. Elva was solely responsible for many happy Christmases during law school years when we had practically nothing. She made sure the kids had gifts and treats and we had a place to spend holidays.

It has been a singular privilege to have this dear woman as my mother in law. I will miss her greatly.